...back to the basics...

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2011-09-06T10:44:00.001-05:00

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33 weeks

2011-08-23T13:53:00.000-05:00

How far along?: 33 weeks!

How big is baby?: Over 4 pounds and 17 inches long! Crazy!

Weight gain/loss?: I will know more at my appointment tomorrow! So far, up 4.

Stretch marks?: I should change this to say, besides the few that Brayden left, none.

Maternity clothes?: Yes, please. Actually, I boxed up most of the maternity clothes that I borrowed from a friend because the tops were becoming too short. YIKES. I have a few longer shirts left but that is about it.

Sleep?: What is that? Sleep has been awful lately. I have been waking up in the night because of my legs, and the Tylenol PM just isn't cutting it. I am going to ask my doctor tomorrow about increasing the dose a little bit on the restless leg medicine since I am on the absolute lowest dose right now. I just can't get comfortable.

Food cravings?: Ice water. I have had to remember to quit drinking around 7:30-8pm otherwise I end up in the bathroom multiple times at night!

Gender?: We are having a girl!

Movement?: Yes! All. the. time. Baby girl is a mover and a shaker. Last night, Brandon couldn't believe the movements he was seeing!

Belly button?: I officially have an outie. My hubs thinks its gross. I don't want to talk about it. :)

What are you looking forward to this week?: My appointment tomorrow, birthday shopping for the hubby, crossing things off of our list...

Baby girl is losing her alien look and her skull is starting to harden. She is about the size of a pineapple, which I totally believe given the way that I am looking these days. If I sit for a long period of time and then get up, I totally look like I am waddling- yikes. I try to limit that look! I am still having quite a bit of ligament pain/hip pain but it comes and goes. It is the worst in the evenings, so I have still been taking nightly bubble baths to help relax. It's kind of nice!

Her room is ALMOST done, Brayden's room is almost done, and we are working towards getting the front porch trim finished as well. The hubs has quite the list, so we are just working at it as we can. His goal is to have the trim done in the front porch before she comes so we can hang the blinds in there.

I am ready to pack the diaper bag- it is taking all of my self-control NOT to pack it right now! But I know there is really no point in doing it just yet. 6 weeks to go!

Little Moments

2011-08-22T14:25:00.000-05:00

This morning, Brayden and I made a quick run to WalMart for a few things, stopped to see my mom and Brandon at work, and then headed home to put groceries away. Brandon was right behind us with the mower, and while he was doing that, Brayden and I were just making our way through the yard playing then back in the garage with some toys.

I was sitting in a lawn chair and Brayden had some toys out, then all of the sudden he came up to me, said "momma" and gave me a BIG hug. Tears instantly streamed down my face. He looked up at me and reached up for a kiss, then went on his little way with his toys. A few moments later, he came up and pointed to my belly. I told him that's where sissy is, and he gave her a kiss. More tears.

My heart swelled. What on Earth did I do to deserve such a sweet little boy? I am soaking up these last few weeks with him as our "only" child, knowing that he will be such a sweet big brother.

TGIF!

2011-08-19T13:52:00.000-05:00

It's Friday!

I am so glad- it has been a long, tiring week and I am looking forward to spending the day with my mom and sister tomorrow doing some shopping! No boys allowed- not even toddlers. Brayden and Brandon are cooking up some sort of boys day out- I am sure they will have a blast.

As you know, this week was our bloggy friend meet up at the DuPage Children's Museum! I got to meet Maegan and Melissa and their precious little guys. Unfortunately, I was so frazzled after driving around for 20 minutes to park and meet Maegan that I totally left my camera in the car. Who does that? SO as soon as those ladies have their photos up, I will be stealing them- you have been warned! Here is the one that I managed to get as Maegan and I were leaving the parking deck.

I will never leave my camera in the car ever again!

Anyways, full recap with more photos later! Happy Weekend!

My Heart's at Home

2011-08-18T07:00:00.001-05:00

Back in March, I had the opportunity to attend the Hearts at Home conference and it was incredibly moving! The founder, Jill Savage, wrote a book called "My Heart's at Home: Becoming the Intentional Mom Your Family Needs" and I picked up a copy. It has been on my nightstand since, but the other night I picked it up. The introduction was so powerful- I had to share.

"But what makes a house a home? It's the family dynamics of the people who live in that house that makes it a home. When we value being home and recognize all the roles that home plays in our life, we can provide a secure, loving environment for each member of our family."

That was just in the introduction, but it totally resonated with me. There are so many days where I think to myself "the laundry can wait, the dusting can wait..." and it seems that I am not valuing my home, or my "job" of being home raising a family. It makes me wonder how many other wives and moms are doing the same thing- probably many! Yes, doing the same chores day in, day out, all the time gets very, very boring. But if I shift my perspective to it being my "job", it helps me stay focused. I want to provide a clean, loving, secure place for my family to reconnect at the end of the day. And I don't mean this to sound condescending to working moms- I believe that no matter what your occupation is, we ALL want to come home to a place that is like our sanctuary.

What is your take on this? Do you intentionally recognize the role you play in your home?

I look forward to sharing more excerpts from this book as I continue to read.

My Favorite Season

2011-08-17T21:18:00.000-05:00

I know I shouldn't talk about fall since it is still August, but with everyone being back in school, I get the fall itch. Fall is by far my favorite season. Cooler temperatures, farming, football, apple orchard trip- I could go on and on. I love being able to wear jeans and sweaters, comfy hoodies, and not breaking out the winter coat just yet.

This year, I am excited that we are having our baby girl in October, but I am even MORE excited about getting to buy new jeans in the months after having her. I have one pair of maternity jeans that I LOVE (so much so, that I ripped them during my first pregnancy and had them fixed for this one) but that's about it. And I went through some pretty drastic size changes after having Brayden (going down 3-4 pant sizes and keeping it off for a good 9 months) so I am not having a lot of hope in fitting into what I already have (which is a good thing!). I also don't want to invest a LOT of money into jeans until I know I can keep the weight off.

Here's what is on my wish list:

Gap 1969 Curvy Jeans

It is no secret that I LOVE Gap jeans- mostly because they come in petites and actually FIT me.

Gap 1969 Long and Lean

Now, when you know that I am only 5'1" tall, you would think that long and lean jeans wouldn't be for me. BUT, I love this fit and since they also come in petites? They are keepers for sure!

Old Navy Diva Skinny Jeans

I used to think skinny jeans were stupid but I LOVE them now! They are great for tucking into boots in the winter, and look great with flats for fall. Definitely can't wait to try some on in a few more months!

What are your favorite fall pieces??

32 weeks

2011-08-16T07:00:00.000-05:00

How far along?: 32 weeks!

How big is baby?: At our ultrasound last week, she is already weighing in at 4 pounds, 5 ounces. We will have an 8 pounder on our hands for sure I think!

Weight gain/loss?: +4 for the overall.

Stretch marks?: I should change this to say, besides the few that Brayden left, none.

Maternity clothes?: Yes, please. If I am not in maternity clothes, I am in large tshirts!

Sleep?: Some nights when I am super tired, I take a Tylenol PM with my leg medicine. This helps me sleep totally through the night (except for a couple bathroom breaks) and I feel WAY better the next morning. I just can't do it every night!

Food cravings?: Still donuts, pizza...

Gender?: We are having a girl!

Movement?: Yes! All. the. time. Baby girl is head down already and I knew I felt some little piggies up by my chest!

Belly button?: I officially have an outie. My hubs thinks its gross, mostly because mine never popped out with Brayden.

What are you looking forward to this week?: Being at home with Brayden, crossing things off of my list!

Baby girl is head down and facing my back, so our ultrasound pictures from our last appointment aren't that great. She wasn't very cooperative! We could tell that she is chunking up a bit in the face, and we saw that she has hair! :) SO cute. She has a big ol' noggin like her brother as well! I guess our babies are just destined to have huge heads.

My hip/ligament pain isn't exactly subsiding, and I can tell when I have overdone. I was so sore on Saturday, it hurt to walk! BUT I convinced the hubs to do a little shopping with me so we plugged away and then went for a walk with Brayden once we got home. I was too afraid to sit down, knowing that the pain would probably settle back in. Warm baths are definitely becoming a nightly regular for me.

7 weeks to go! :)

Something New

2011-08-15T07:00:00.000-05:00

My sister went to the Lake of the Ozarks a few weeks ago, and brought me back the cutest Vera Bradley bag!

It is the hipster in the new fall color, Mocha Rouge, and I am obsessed. I didn't always love the idea/style of a crossbody bag, but with Brayden, being hands free is a must. This bag is perfect for that!

And, since I heart Vera Bradley so much, I get a $20 birthday reward, so I spent it on this...

The zip around wristlet to match! It is great- holds an insane amount of cards plus my checkbook, and I love the wristlet strap so I can carry it solo if I need to! And it's organized, which I love.

So yeah, that's the newest addition to my handbag collection! I actually got rid of some old wallets and a couple of old purses at a garage sale recently- that helps!

Ramblings

2011-08-12T13:16:00.000-05:00

To round out our week, we found out yesterday that our desktop computer bit the dust. SO, now we get to shop for a new tower. Hubs really wants an iMac, but his farming stuff isn't Mac compatible, and there is nothing wrong with our monitor so we are just going to get a PC tower for now. We plan to go tomorrow and look at Best Buy and just have kind of a family day together, so I am actually looking forward to that.

We had our 31 week doctor appointment yesterday. Baby girl is measuring at 4 pounds, 5 ounces already and is head down, which is good. She is facing my back so we didn't get to see much of her face, but she's definitely getting big. She is getting chubby and we even saw some hair on her head! So crazy. Less than 8 weeks to go. I am feeling more ready every day, but still soaking up my time with Brayden. I got a box of newborn diapers and put them in the basket and they are just SO small. It is amazing to both Brandon and I that we are going to be having another child that is that small.

Brayden is doing awesome in his big boy bed! :) I asked him where the baby sleeps and he pointed to the crib, and I asked him where he sleeps and he showed me his room. It was too cute. I put the crib bedding in the crib- I couldn't wait- but I am waiting on some other things before I post pictures of her room.

The boy is napping so I am relaxing for a bit, then we are having my brother, his g/f, my sister, and her b/f over for dinner! Happy Weekend!

48 hours

2011-08-11T08:00:00.000-05:00

My family makes fun of me a LOT because of my infatuation with the latest and greatest in technology. I super big puffy heart my iPhone, and by the time this posts, I will have been without it for 48 hours. After 24 hours, my brother made the comment that he was surprised I was even surviving! I own a Macbook Pro, a Nook color, and I love them all. I really want an iPad but hubs doesn't think it is a necessity....

Truth be told, it has been tough being without my phone. I have a written planner but I keep a lot of information in my phone as well. I use it as a watch, to keep up on e-mails when I am out and about all day, morning conversations with my bff, and to keep Brayden entertained if we are out to eat.

The worst of it has been that a lot of other things in the house have gone out (the oven element, the HD channels, our desktop computer) so when I am home, I can't even handle those things because we don't have a land line. And by the time Brandon gets home from work, it's too late to call! Luckily, I did remember to call about the oven yesterday- I am still waiting on that. But the TV thing will just have to wait.And I am ok with that.

Slowly but surely this week, I am starting to be ok with the cards life has dealt. And in the big scheme, these are very, very insignificant cards. I am really having to rely on God this week to keep my attitude in check, my emotions in check, and my words carefully chosen.

Luckily, Brayden has been an absolute angel through this week and has been TONS of fun- I am soaking it up, and knowing in the back of my head that THESE are the things that life is made of. I can't wait for more moments with him.

Guest Blogger: Maegan from Chesterrific

2011-08-10T07:00:00.003-05:00

I am SO happy that Maegan is guest posting over here today! She is one of my closest bloggy friends, and I can't wait to see her in Chicago in a week! WOOT! She is super stylish, has a really awesome blog, and is just a great person all around. Her little guy, Chester, is so cute and I hope him and Brayden become friends on our play date.

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I'm so happy to be guesting on Julie's blog today! She is one of my favorite everyday reads, I just love her, and guess what?! I get to meet her next week! We're headed to Chicago for vacation and if we can get all our ducks in a row we'll be having a playdate a week from today. When Julie asked if I would like to guest for her I was more than happy to accept ... but then I couldn't think of anything to write about. Total bloggers block for weeks.

And then it came to me, when I was asked for the 3,819th time, "Your son is getting to be the right age to be a big brother, when is baby # 2 going to happen?" "Well, family member, like I told you the last time you asked me this, we're 'One & Done'".

That's us ... our family unit of 3 is complete. To my surprise, this actually surprises the majority of people I tell. I'm always asked, as any new mom is, when is baby #2 going to be here? Seriously, I was actually asked that question during my sons first week of life!

During pregnancy the unsolicited advice seems free flowing from friends, family, strangers; and post pregnancy those friends, family, strangers start in with "when when when is the next?" Tell me I'm not the only one who gets this question all the time?

When asked I just smile, give a loving glance at my boy, and reply, "We're one and done!" And the conversation then goes something like this:

"WHAT? No, that's not possible."

"Yep, we're complete and happy."

"But he needs a brother or sister, he can't be an only child. Only children are {lonely} {spoiled} {ill-adjusted} {missing out on childhood, forced to grow up too fast} {insert objectional comment here} ......

"Well, I'm an only child. I think I turned out okay."

"Oh, yeah, um ..."

... and end conversation.

Seems like friends / family seem to forget I'm an only child, and strangers just never know what to say next. And honestly, being an only child, I loved it. My parents and I are very close, I never wanted a brother or sister. I'm happy that my husband has 2 sisters, they are awesome and I love calling them my sisters now, but my childhood was magical, I wasn't forced to grow up too fast, I was never lonely, I don't think I'm ill-adjusted (to life, love, parenting, relationships, not sure what exactly they're implying here) ... but I will admit that sometimes I was a little spoiled.

And because my son is going to be an only child he's going to be a little spoiled too. But guess what, if I had 2 kids or 12 kids, each one of them would be a little bit spoiled ... because they're babies and children and teenagers and they're figuring out how to grow up and it's not easy, and because every single child should in fact be spoiled. A child is a gift from God, a blessing, the most amazing little person in the whole world, and they deserve to be a little spoiled.

Anyway, I got off topic, started a rant about loving on your children too much (is that possible?!), when I mean to be talking about "why" we are one and done.

When the hubs and I were dating and started talking seriously about our future and marriage and kids, we both said we wanted only one. Easy peasy there. And like I said, he has 2 sisters, and they get along fantastically, so his personal family dynamics didn't play a role in that decision. I asked him why he wanted one and he said he just never envisioned his life with more than one. Freaky, because that's exactly the same about me! I don't know if it's because I am an only, but I never saw my future as a mom of more than one ... biological child.

Threw you for a loop?

Yep, we're one and done when it comes to us procreating. But if God places the desire in our hearts to have more children, then we'll adopt. My mom says she feels a presence of an adopted baby in our future. So that's pretty exciting! But if you ask me today, I don't see that on our horizon, I'm just not there yet.

I wish I could sum it up with an easy sentence about "why" we are done and calling our little family complete, but there's really not an easy answer. So to address all the assumptions that I get from friends / family / strangers ... It's not about money (we're fine thank you), it's not about wanting a boy and being unhappy if its a girl, or vice versa (we would love any gender child we were blessed with), it's not about not having enough love in our hearts for another baby (seriously, lame), it's not about us being selfish and self-centered adults who don't want to give our lives up to raise children (um, just look at our boy who is the light and the center of our lives, we have happily given up so much for him, and will do so for as long as we live) ...

It's honestly just about us, as husband and wife and son; Daddy & mommy & baby, feeling so completely blessed and filfulled as a little family of 3, that we are content. We couldn't ask for anything more ... except maybe another baby when the time is right for us to adopt. :)

31 Weeks

2011-08-09T08:12:00.000-05:00

How far along?: 31 weeks!

How big is baby?: Over 16 inches in length and around 3.3 pounds.

Weight gain/loss?: +3 for the overall. I have an appointment on Thursday, so we shall see!

Stretch marks?: I should change this to say, besides the few that Brayden left, none.

Maternity clothes?: Yes, please. If I am not in maternity clothes, I am in large tshirts!

Sleep?: Pretty well still. I have been waking up in the middle of the night lately for an hour or two- for no reason, just wide awake. Sometimes I play Angry Birds, sometimes I read blogs... but I am always wishing I could just sleep.

Food cravings?: Donuts. Make it stop!

Gender?: We are having a girl!

Movement?: Yes! I can tell she is getting bigger as her kicks and punches are getting stronger and more visible. Brandon watched the other night as my stomach jolted and moved. It is just insane.

Belly button?: I officially have an outie. My hubs thinks its gross, mostly because mine never popped out with Brayden.

What are you looking forward to this week?: My manicure tonight (much needed), our appointment and ultrasound on Thursday, and getting more things ready in her room now that Brayden's been successful for 2 nights in his big boy bed!

Baby girl can turn her head from side to side, and she is busy plumping up! She will continue to be active, which is a great sign that all is well. Her busiest time it seems is right about when I crawl into bed- go figure- so I hope that doesn't stick around! :) It is just incredible to feel her move and squirm, even though once in a while they are painful!

Lately, I can not stop dreaming about the baby. I have dreams about delivery, the first days home, and what life will be like afterward. They are all pretty fuzzy and I don't remember many details, but when I wake up, I am just SO excited to meet her.

Her room is coming together nicely. I couldn't help myself the other night and I put the crib sheet and the bumper on, even though I said I would give Brayden a week in the big boy bed. I didn't tie the bumper because we still have to move the mattress back up, but I love the way it looks. Photos to come! :) I am waiting on one more wall hanging which I will be able to share before she comes, but I also decided to do her initials on the other wall- so that will have to wait!

The Big Boy Bed

2011-08-08T21:21:00.000-05:00

I had no intention of moving Brayden to his big boy bed yet. I wasn't ready to fight bedtime, I am exhausted as it is right now, and wanted to wait until things around here calmed down a bit. When we were back to our "normal" routine. When he had curtains hung up. When I was ready.

But then Sunday night, I got the crazy idea to just try it, and see how it went. I wanted to put the new nursery curtains up, get his cleaned and pressed and hung up, and THEN do it. But, we decided to wing it.

I took off the top sheet and the comforter, and just put the blankets from his crib with him. He is SUCH a crazy sleeper that I didn't want to have to worry about him getting tangled in blankets in a not-so-familiar room. We did bath time, played, picked up toys, and then I rocked him just like I always do. And I rocked him. And I rocked him. I was SO nervous. Brandon looked at me like "are you ever going to put him to bed?"

I walked into his big boy room with a big boy in my arms, laid him down, and he immediately jumped back into my arms crying for daddy. I just said "it's ok buddy, just lay down." He laid right back down, I stayed and rubbed his back for a couple of minutes, walked away, and shut the door. Never heard a peep. He went right to sleep.

And I went right for the bathroom and shed a few tears. My big boy was officially a big boy. No more crib. And this transition? Went WAY better than I ever imagined. Tonight he didn't even cry, he laid right down and went right to sleep. So I plan to just keep taking it one day at a time and see how he does. I know that eventually it won't be this easy when he can ask for a glass of water/one more story/one more hug... but for now, I will take it.

Moving!

2011-08-07T21:44:00.001-05:00

This blog will be moving to WordPress in the coming days! So, please excuse the lack of posts while everything changes!

I have lots to blog about when I come back- as I'm typing, Brayden is sleeping in his big boy room. Fingers crossed!

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Friday Randoms and giveaway winners!

2011-08-05T08:00:00.000-05:00

Here is my 30 week picture since I didn't get one taken before my post on Tuesday.

Also? 30 WEEKS ALREADY? Yikes. Cue the freak out.

I ordered some very cute baby headbands from 25 Design that I absolutely adore!

The hot pink one with the feather? I am looking for a hot pink ruffled diaper cover to go with it for her newborn photos. I think they will be SO cute!

Another bad note- my sister got into a small fender bender with my car yesterday. Totally wasn't her fault, but she was alone with Brayden, and feels pretty bad about it. I'm just glad they weren't hurt, and the other lady involved was very, very nice about the entire thing. Brandon has all of her information so we will just go from there. When it rains, it pours, right? I am just so thankful right now for a new day, a new start, and that everyone is safe.

And now, for some giveaway winners!! The winner of the custom birthday print from Sarah is...

#3- Maegan! :) I am excited to see what you two come up with for C's birthday!!

And the winner of their choice of item from Whimsical Poppysmic is...

#11- Mommy Becoming! Congrats! I will be emailing you soon!

Happy Friday! I am spending the morning with my little guy, working in the afternoon, and we have a wedding to attend Saturday afternoon. What are your weekend plans?

What a week.

2011-08-04T08:00:00.000-05:00

Another week, another bout of craziness going on here.

Last week, I noticed a total ant infestation in my kitchen. Gross, right? And the little amount of food that WAS out, wasn't that old but was totally covered in ants. Out it went. I cleaned, cleaned, cleaned- couldn't figure out where they were coming from, and called B to tell him. He brought some bug killer home that evening, and it is a good thing he did. They were TWICE as bad after I cleaned them up!

They started dying so we just left that area of the kitchen alone. My mom made a good point by saying "at least you don't have to cook in it right now!" Very true! Since Brandon and I have been working, we just eat at work with everyone else. I can't remember the last time we all sat at the table and had a meal.

But then we got done a little earlier than planned on Tuesday, and I have no groceries in the house. I told B we would just have frozen pizza. Perfect. Until I walked back inside to check on the pizza and my oven wasn't getting hot. After 15 minutes. I think the element is out. :( I could have just cried- it had been a long day and now I couldn't even make a pizza! Dang hormones. Thank goodness for the pizza pizzazz!

I am almost scared to touch any other appliances/anything in this house for fear it will be broken.

Guest Blogger: Callie Nicole from Through Clouded Glass

2011-08-03T07:00:00.000-05:00

Today's guest is my friend Callie from Through Clouded Glass. I have been reading her blog for well over a year and a half now, and I LOVE it. She is wife to Derek and mama to Wyatt, who is the one of the cutest little guys ever! She posts about a lot of interesting topics, which is why she is one of my top reads. You guys should definitely go check out her blog- you won't be disappointed!

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First of all, thank you Julie for having me! I love reading Julie's blog, and I am so honored to be doing a guest post for her!

Ever since Julie asked me to do a guest post, I've been desperately attempting to come up with something to write about. Nothing was coming to me. I've never drawn such a blank when trying to think of a post.

I was thinking about it again one night last week, because my window of opportunity was quickly closing, and I asked my husband what he thought I should write about. He quickly said I should write about lint.

Lint? Obviously he was joking, and he did get a chuckle out of me. But since I'm desperate, I'm taking it and running with it. Except about laundry, not lint.

Laundry and I have a love/hate relationship. I really love doing loads of laundry - throwing clothes in the washer and dryer knowing they will soon be clean makes me happy.

Oh, but once they get out of the dryer, the hating begins. I hate folding laundry. Hate it. If you were to take a picture of my laundry room every day, you would see the "clean" basket gradually getting fuller and fuller, until it's overflowing, and still I do nothing about it.

I think I secretly just hope that my husband will notice and take over the folding duties - and he sometimes does. But sometimes I just have to buckle down and fold them myself.

Because of this hate for laundry folding, I am torn when coming to a decision about whether to wash something. You know how alot of new moms change their baby's outfit every time they spit up on themselves? Not in this household. My baby doesn't get out of the outfit he's in unless he makes a serious mess in it (if you know what I mean).

But then on the other hand, I'm a bit of a germaphobe. That's what working in the dental field will do to you. If there's even a possibility that some spit got on my scrubs, they need to be washed. And they need to be washed separately from the rest of our laundry, because I don't want to contaminate other clothes with the spitty-ness. I've even considered running an empty load between my scrubs and the rest of our laundry, with bleach, just so I can be sure there's no germs remaining in the washer.

Clearly I have issues.

As I was thinking over all of this laundry stuff, I started considering how this relates to my faith. Do you know that laundry is mentioned in the Bible? Take a look at these verses.

"All of us have become like one who is unclean,
and all our righteous acts are like filthy rags;
we all shrivel up like a leaf,
and like the wind our sins sweep us away."
Isaiah 64:6

Even when we give our best, our righteous acts are like filthy rags when compared to God's righteousness.

I'm sure some of you wives and mothers can relate to the "filthy rags" part. Think the rags you use to clean your bathroom, or even better, cloth diapers. Yep.

But there is hope!

“Come now, let us settle the matter,”
says the LORD.
“Though your sins are like scarlet,
they shall be as white as snow;
though they are red as crimson,
they shall be like wool."
Isaiah 1:18

When we put our faith In Jesus, he will miraculously take those "filthy rags" and make them "white as snow", by covering us with His righteousness!

Infinitely better than any laundry detergent. Through Jesus, we have victory!

And my favorite . . .

"The one who is victorious will, like them, be dressed in white. I will never blot out the name of that person from the book of life, but will acknowledge that name before my Father and his angels."
Revelation 3:5

I love that if we believe in Jesus, when we get to Heaven God will give us white clothes to wear.

Rarely do I dare to wear white, especially with a new baby - something always stains it. But somehow I don't think it will be possible for our heavenly white clothes to get stained.

I like that.

Something to think about next time you have to fold those clothes.

30 weeks

2011-08-02T07:00:00.000-05:00

How far along?: 30 weeks! I can't believe it!

How big is baby?: 15.7 inches long and almost 3 pounds- the size of a head of cabbage.

Weight gain/loss?: +3 for the overall.

Stretch marks?: I should change this to say, besides the few that Brayden left, none.

Maternity clothes?: All maternity pants, still mixing and matching tops, but some of my tops are getting too short.

Sleep?: Pretty well still. I am still waking up LONG before Brayden has been, which I can't complain about. I enjoy my quiet time in the mornings, but by the end of the day, I am always wishing I could have slept longer. For some reason, I just can't.

Food cravings?: Pizza, cereal, ice cold water.

Gender?: We are having a girl!

Movement?: Yes! I can tell she is getting bigger as her kicks and punches are getting stronger and more visible.

Belly button?: I officially have an outie. My hubs thinks its gross, mostly because mine never popped out with Brayden.

What are you looking forward to this week?: I will be keeping busy at work as my pile continues to grow (which is a huge blessing), staying busy with Brayden, and getting one more week down in the books of this pregnancy!

I am kind of over being pregnant. I am getting slower and bigger and more awkward every single day. I just can't get over how different this pregnancy is compared to my first! I have a lot of shooting pain in my groin when I walk (not all the time, mostly in the evenings), my hips are really sore in the mornings, and I find myself needing to take it slow some days. Which, with having a two year old, isn't always completely possible! But we are making it work, and Brayden will just have to understand that I can't hold him/carry him as much. It's hard.

We are 9 weeks away from meeting our daughter. SINGLE DIGITS people! I am feeling mostly ready as far as stuff for her goes. She has a closet full of clothes, blankets, socks, and headbands. It is going to weird buying 2 sizes of diapers for awhile, I will admit! I am a little scared of the repeat C-section, but as long as she gets here and is healthy, I know it will all be fine.

There are two hospitals in the town where I doctor, and one just opened a brand new birthing unit! I am hoping to get to deliver there, so that is something that we will discuss at my next appointment. At first, Brandon wanted to deliver where we had Brayden just because we did have an amazing experience there! BUT that hospital is under a lot of construction (mostly why my doctor is opening a new office this week that isn't in the hospital anymore) and he said it would be a LOT more convenient at the other hospital. So, we'll see what my options are when I go back to the doctor.

I go back a week from this Thursday- We stretched it to one more 3 week visit because their office is moving and she is only seeing patients who are 35 weeks and up. We have one more ultrasound at this appointment just to check on baby one more time!

Feature and Giveaway! Whimsical Poppysmic

2011-08-01T07:00:00.014-05:00

I have another giveaway for you guys today! It is from my friend Chrissy from Whimsical Poppysmic. I am not sure how exactly I stumbled upon her blog, but I LOVE it. It is one of my must reads every day! Here is what she has to say about the items in her Etsy shop.

I opened my Etsy shop last December after showing some of my creations on my blog! I got a lot of positive feedback from fellow bloggers and a lot of my bloggy friends even asked, where they could buy them!

I get my inspiration everywhere! I love going thrifting, I love spending time at craft stores and craft fairs and ,of course, I spend a lot of time browsing the internet for new ideas!

Right now I am doing this mainly for the fun of it. It's a hobby to me and I just love creating new items! It would be great to take this to the next level and attend some craft shows - but for now, I am just enjoying the process of it all!

The best part about selling handmade is getting a positive feedback from my customer, letting me know how much they enjoy their handmade item! I absolutely love custom orders, it is so much fun creating something the way the customer had invisioned it to be!

Chrissy was nice enough to offer up an item from her shop- and the best part is? The winner gets to choose one of these two items!

Felt iPhone, iTouch, Blackberry cozy

Leather Bracelet, single wrap with bronze leaves.

I told you, she makes some amazing things! She and her family are getting ready to move back to Germany, so if you want to order something from her shop, use the code BIGMOVE20 at checkout to receive 20% off your order!

To Enter:

- Tell me which of those two items you would choose if you were the winner!

Bonus Entries:

- Follow this blog.

- Follow Chrissy's blog

-Follow me on Twitter

-Follow Chrissy on Twitter

-Tweet about this giveaway! Make sure that you put @basicallyjulie in there so I can track it!

That is a total of 6 possible entries! Also, in one of your entries, include your e-mail address so I can notify you if you win! This giveaway will end on Friday, August 5th and the winner will be announced on Saturday, August 6th! Good luck!

Tough Week

2011-07-28T21:42:00.000-05:00

This has been a tough week. Physically, mentally, emotionally.

Physically, baby girl is stretching my lower ligaments like nobody's business. When I told my mom I didn't remember this much pain last time, she said I wouldn't because it's a second baby thing. But it hurts to even stand, to walk. Carrying Brayden? Forget it. And the poor kid loves his mama lately, and it is hard to say no. I am taking regular tylenol as needed and warm baths and night. I think I just need to listen to my body, but there is SO much going on right now- I am just plugging away through the days. *sigh*

Mentally and emotionally, working and juggling Brayden with no real plan for him for each day has been tough. Working from home is not going like any of us thought (mostly due to some program issues) so I am really feeling the pressure at work. BUT since we didn't plan for it, I obviously didn't plan for Brayden's care thinking that I could work during nap time. That is proving to not be enough time to keep up, so it's been pretty draining trying to get to work. And just because busy season is here doesn't mean that I feel good about adding the chaos into Brayden's life.

On top of that, our pediatrician confirmed what we already knew: Brayden is speech delayed. I knew this was coming, I mean the kid just said momma for the first time 2 weeks ago. His other word? Dada. That's it. But hearing it from his doctor? Just kind of hurt. We are in the process of getting him an evaluation through Easter Seals. More to come on this.

And I miss my husband. Because we haven't even really seen much of each other, let alone talked about most of this stuff. We are so blessed with this business and the flexibility of it throughout the entire year, but this last week has been rough. I am just praying that we all get through it, and that I can hold myself together until this storm in life has passed.

Brayden's Birthday Recap

2011-07-28T08:00:00.000-05:00

Some of you may remember that I had a really hard time when Brayden turned one. That whole week I spent crying, sobbing, sad that he wasn't my baby anymore.

So when plans for Brayden's 2nd birthday started to roll in, my husband (being the sweetheart that he is) wanted to make sure I was emotionally OK and not to overdo on the party. He told me to keep it simple, and with our busy time of year right smack dab in the middle of party planning, I really had no choice.

I ordered the cake from a local lady. It was a 2 layer white sheet cake, and there wasn't that much leftover!

I also got chocolate cupcakes, white cupcakes, some fun cups for the kids, and the birthday print from Sarah.

His personalized plate I got from Zulily awhile back- I love it!

Brayden had lots of helpers at his party!

He couldn't wait to dive in to the cupcakes!

Our pilots that are working for my dad got him this fourwheeler- He loves it!

He was absolutely spoiled rotten, and it took us forever to open gifts! He got lots of Cars things, new books, tractors, semi's, and clothes. He was a very, very happy 2 year old! He did awesome at his party- everyone got a huge kick out of him, and we were just happy to celebrate.

I should also mention that Brandon's grandma and aunt made BBQ and fruit salad, I brought chips and goldfish crackers, and we had lemonade. Just simple things, but it all came together and we had a great party.

Guest Blogger: Sarah from 2Paws Designs

2011-07-27T07:00:00.000-05:00

Another day, another featured guest over here! :) Today, I bring you Sarah from 2Paws Designs. It is thanks to her that Brayden had a cute (albeit crooked- that's my doing) Cars birthday shirt! Her son Dylan turned 2 the week before Brayden, and she sent me the iron on that she already had made up! Awesome, right? She is super crafty and oh so talented! Here is a recap of what she did for Dylan's Cars birthday party- and stay tuned, there is a giveaway at the end!

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I love crafting and creating with my hands whenever I have the opportunity. I'm a stay-at-home-mom to my 2 year old son & 10 month old niece so that usually means nap time & after my son has gone to bed - don't disturb me! ;) It's my "me" time. A time to relax, refocus, and let my creativity flow. Earlier in the month I used that time to finish lots of party related projects for my son's 2nd birthday. Being crafty + ~~cheap~~ thrifty, I created as much of the decor as possible.

I made Dylan's Lightning McQueen '2' t-shirt, bean bags for our toss (into the spare tire from DH's car! Free! See, I'm very 'thrify'. LOL), a 'Dinoco' oil can from an empty formula container, box 'cars' for the kids to play in, etc. Truthfully, I had lots of fun in making these things and seeing my ideas come to life.

One of the final decorations I came up with was a subway art print. I love seeing those online and thought, "I can do that!" The moment my son & niece were down for their naps, I was at my computer clicking away in Photoshop. I shared with result with Julie a few days later. Seeing as both our boys were about to celebrate turning 2 and both were having Cars themed parties, I thought she might enjoy it. I kept the design more general, but did use colors to match the theme and a Cars related font for "happy birthday." On the day of the party, I inserted it into a black frame we already owned & hung it up next to a hubcap we found at a scrap shop.

Now, here's where this post gets much more fun. You have the opportunity to win a copy. The winner can specify age and colors (up to 4). I'll then email a high resolution image file ready for printing & displaying at your child's party (hanging it next to a hubcap is up to the winner's discretion ;) ). The file is sized to 8.5x11 so you can easily print at home.

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Here is how I displayed Brayden's at his party:

Not quite as awesome as Sarah's idea, but I did get TONS of compliments on it! Here is how to enter to win your very own!

1. Mandatory: Tell me when/what you would use it for! And leave your e-mail address so I can contact you if you win.

Extras:

2. Leave a comment with the color combination you would want.

3. Be a follower of my blog.

4. Follow Sarah's blog.

5. Follow me on Twitter- @basicallyjulie

6. Follow Sarah on Twitter- @2pawsdesigns

6 entries! Good luck!!

I'm Being Featured!

2011-07-26T08:00:00.001-05:00

Head on over to Maegan's blog today for my Summertime Essentials feature!

29 weeks

2011-07-25T21:53:00.000-05:00

How far along?: 29 weeks!

How big is baby?: Over 2 1/2 pounds and over 15 inches in length- this is butternut squash week!

Weight gain/loss?: +3 for the overall.

Stretch marks?: I should change this to say, besides the few that Brayden left, none.

Maternity clothes?: All maternity pants, still mixing and matching tops, but some of my tops are getting too short.

Sleep?: Pretty well for the most part. As long as I take my medicine around 9:30-10pm each night, I don't notice my legs getting all weird and I sleep pretty well. I have woken up a couple of times due to baby kicking me HARD because I was a little too far over on my belly instead of my side. She is bossy already!

Food cravings?: Pizza, cereal, ice cold water.

Gender?: We are having a girl!

Movement?: Yes! Baby girl moves all the time. I see her rippling along my stomach now. I also felt her hiccups for the first time over the weekend, and she has had them a couple of other times since then.

Belly button?: Getting flatter and flatter.

What are you looking forward to this week?: Brayden's 2 year well check, doing a garage sale with a friend, work work work- just staying busy!

We are 10 weeks away from meeting our baby girl! 10 WEEKS!! :) It is going to go by so fast. She is a mover and a shaker, that is for sure. I feel her constantly. I have done some more organizing in her room and moved some more of Brayden's things to his big boy room. I started a list of what needs to go in her diaper bag for the hospital as well, but I won't be packing up for awhile yet! I feel pretty good about where we are in terms of being ready. We still have to get the bassinet attachment out for the pack and play, get an extra sheet, get the infant car seat and base out- but we have awhile yet.

I ordered some new nursing bras (yay exciting- not) because I threw out all of mine when I was done nursing Brayden. They stretched so much and were falling apart- gross. I ordered 2 from Gap and I need to get one that doesn't have a wire so I can sleep in it. Amazing, that last time I knew I was going to try breastfeeding but didn't bring a single nursing tank OR bra to the hospital. Total idiot move, I know. So this time, I am trying to be more prepared. I also got 2 nursing tanks from the Gap, so we'll see how well those work out. I am slightly worried about nursing again when I have Brayden around since I didn't pump at ALL last time- so I might have to embrace the pump.

I have most of the newborn clothes washed, along with some blankets. It's just so fun to do all of these little clothes all over again! The curtains are ready to be hung up as well, but I don't know if Brandon would be ok with Brayden sleeping in a room with pink curtains- just kidding!

Baby girl's muscles and lungs are starting to mature, and her head is growing to be able to house her growing brain. Her bones are soaking up the calcium these days, so my cold cereal craving has to be helping that!

I find myself envisioning what she will look like, how delivery will go, how Brayden will react, and how my husband will be holding a baby girl. It makes me positively giddy inside. We are so incredibly blessed to be welcoming another baby into our family! On one hand, I can't wait- but I am trying to slow down and enjoy our last weeks as a family of 3.

Busy-ness

2011-07-25T07:00:00.001-05:00

Busy season has officially hit as of one week ago, and I have managed to be an almost single parent for an entire week.

Go me.

I know a lot of people have it worse, so this is good for me, and I am not complaining. Just stating the obvious.

I can't imagine parenting alone. I really can't. I find myself wanting Brandon around, especially in the evenings, because I am just plain tuckered out. This week, in addition to the paperwork that I am responsible for that won't stop piling (yay for that!) I planned a birthday party, went to a doctor appointment, braved the heat to take Brayden to see everyone in the evenings, and got up early every morning just so that I could have a shower before Brayden woke up. Plus kept up with the housework as much as I could. But it is definitely not the same routine. Things get piled, ignored, saved for later- all because I have other things occupying my time that are more important.

It's a much different routine. But it is also one that is expected every year around this time. One that I have a love/hate relationship with. I love being a part of the business, but it gets harder every year.

The biggest lesson that I have learned throughout the last week came at the advice of my mother. I have to keep things as simple as possible in order to do this and still maintain routine and function for Brayden. Basically, my priorities are different this time of year and since Brandon is so busy, I have to be able to work part time and still fill in the gaps with Brayden. And if that means we don't go do as many things? Then that's just part of it. And if that means we get a Happy Meal for lunch one day? SO be it. I have to do what works for us and nothing else.

This advice has helped me keep my sanity this week and my anxiety at bay. Keep it simple. Easier said then done sometimes, but very powerful nonetheless.

And in just a few short weeks? Busy season will be over and our lives will go back to somewhat of a routine.

And then on October 4th, that will all change again.

Happy Birthday, Brayden

2011-07-24T08:00:00.001-05:00

Two years ago at exactly 6:32pm, I gave birth to a charming, sweet, handsome little boy.

It's hard to believe that you have been in our lives for two years, but also harder to imagine what we did without you. You made us first time parents, and we are forever blessed to have you!

Your daddy and I love you more than words can even express, and in just two short years, you have managed to change our outlook on life.

We love watching you learn and grow, and hope that we are doing our best to guide you down a successful path for your life.

I never knew how much being a mother would change me.

I never knew my heart could feel or contain this much love.

Happy 2nd birthday, sweet boy. We love you to the moon and back.

-Momma and Dadda

Hidden Treasures

2011-07-23T07:00:00.000-05:00

As I was making my way through the obscene pile of stuff on my desk the other day, I came across the birthday card that I received from my parents last year. Generally, I don't keep those kinds of things for this long, but I had it in a "special" pile of things that "I put here so they won't get lost because they are important." Well, I knew why I kept it! Inside I found a $20 Amazon gift card that I never used!

Now that I have my Nook color from Barnes and Noble, I don't buy books from Amazon anymore, so I did something totally selfless and bought a new purse.

Tyler Rodan Barnum Tote

This bag is awesome, came with an umbrella (which is staying in there because I NEVER have one when I need one) and is a really pretty neutral/navy color.

I love finding things that I forgot I had!

Guest Blogger: Katie from Sluiter Nation

2011-07-22T07:00:00.002-05:00

If you have been around this blog for at least the last year, you have heard of my friend Katie. I love her blog and I seriously think we could be bff's in real life. No joke.

Her little man just turned two, mine is about to as well, they are both blond headed ~~troublemakers~~ sweethearts, and she has a love for all things handmade just like me! Katie is also one of the bravest people I know, and she honestly shares her struggles with PPD. She and her handsome hubby are trying for baby #2, and I am sending them all the baby dust I can! Read on for a hilarious post about two year old boys...

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First I need to thank Julie for having me here today. She is a brave soul to ask me to guest post for her and NOT give me a topic. Generally when people tell me to write them a post with no topic? I can get…um…random.

But today I think I have a focus.

Julie and I are both moms of boys. Mine just turned two in June and hers is about to turn two in mere days.

So today I am letting you all in on what I’ve learned about having a two year old.

(Now that I’ve had one for a whole month, you know I am an expert. Or something. Ahem.)

Anyway…the list.

He knows more than I thought. I found this out the other day when he pointed to my chest and said, “boop.” Um…what?
He can repeat more than I thought. I thought it was funny when he said “nuts” the other day after I did. But then today he tried to mimic the cat barfing. Uncool, Eddie. Uncool.
He knows that beer is for daddy and diet coke is for mommy. In fact when the fridge is open he points at them and says “ma ma…da-ee”.
He has two personalities. No really. He is the real Jekyll and Hyde. One minute he is giving me unsolicited hugs and telling me “uv oo!” (love you), and the very next moment when I do not get him apple juice right away? Complete and utter meltdown of epic proportions complete with the gnashing of teeth and throwing of toys.
He has two speeds: sleeping and running. There is no in between. Ever.
He knows exactly what the toilet is for. He knows what potty is. He knows what poop is. He knows we wipe our buns and wash our hands. He just won’t do any of it for real.
He has developed very, VERY selective hearing. In fact, it seems that he has gone deaf to his own name uttered out of ONLY my mouth. But he can hear the ice cream truck in the next neighborhood over. Good figure.
He loves his own nudity. He likes to run nekked as a jay bird whenever given the chance. Apparently being naked is where it’s at when you’re two. I will not be trying this one though.
He will climb anything and jump off anything. And then get hurt. Luckily my kisses still heal all boo boo’s.
He will listen, acknowledge, and then go ahead and do what I just said not to do. With a smile on his face, nodding, like I am an idiot. Why do I feel like this is just a preview of the teen years?

There you have it…the top ten things that I have learned about having a two-year old boy. I have to say it’s more fun than I ever thought it would be to have a small person living in the house.

What are some of your favorite (or not-so-favorite) phases your kid(s) have gone through?

The one about tantrums

2011-07-21T07:00:00.000-05:00

We hit the terrible twos around here a good ~~few~~ several months ago. For me, it's not when the kid turns two, it's their second year of life. And boy, has that rung true!

For the most part, Brayden's tantrums are because he gets frustrated trying to communicate. I try to ask him if it is this or that, and he shakes his head and starts to get frustrated because I can't figure it out. And then I get frustrated. It's a vicious cycle.

I try to keep my patience but it is SO hard. And then if I still can't figure it out, he just walks away, and I feel terrible! I have been working with him to speak, repeating the names of everything in sight, helping him see colors/letters/numbers in his books.

Nothing.

His tantrums aren't necessarily because he isn't getting what he wants, like if he spots Lightning McQueen anything in a store and I say no- they are because he is frustrated because he can't tell me. *sigh* and it's just plain hard to watch sometimes. I WANT to help him, I WANT to know what he is trying to tell me. But it just isn't there yet. And I don't know what I can do to make it better.

Pretty soon, he will probably just start spitting out sentences and I will regret this little complaint. Mark my words.

Guest Blogger: Kristen from Three in the Nest

2011-07-20T07:00:00.010-05:00

Next up is Kristen from Three in the Nest. Here is a little bit about her:

I am a wife to one, dog owner to two, and mom to three. My laundry is always piling up, my floors are never crumb free, and the noise level in my house is always high...but I wouldn't have it any other way (well, I wouldn't turn down a housekeeper, but you know what I mean). I am completely biased when it comes to the cuteness of my kids, but I take no credit for it, God made and gave them to me this way! I am beyond thrilled to be their mom and am trying to savor every second that I have with them as I can see just how fast time is flying!

Her blog is a new found favorite of mine! The post I have bookmarked is her Homemade Salsa recipe- I can't wait to try it! Enjoy her post!

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I love being a stay-at-home super mom, but not every day runs smoothly. This past week, we had a doosey of a morning. You know the type: three sippy cups with three different requests for beverages, sticky-pancake fingers all over the kitchen table (and chairs. and floor. and light switches), arguing over who sits where, fighting about what show is shown on the television, whining about who smacked who, etc. Oh, and this was before I even hit the "on" button on the coffee maker or before the clock told me it was seven a.m.

It is summer and preschool is out, so a full day at home with these antics would have driven us all insane, so I quickly decided that a trip to the pool might be just the ticket to soothe the savage beasts. After packing the cooler with pb &j sandwiches, grapes, Pringles (my plan was to stuff as many of these in my mouth as possible while they were swimming...they could eat the grapes. that sounds really selfish. but all is fair in love and precious seldom-bought junk-food) and water bottles I also packed the pool bag with towels, sunscreen, pool toys, water squirters, Barbie dolls, water wings, ring floaties, and goggles. Now, the neighborhood pool is only about a 1/4 mile away, but after having no coffee (or breakfast for that matter) and having to lug this all myself, it sometimes seems much longer. Just when I was settling into feeling like a servant and the typical put-upon Mom who gets no praise or thanks, my middle girl (a super cute and sassy three year old) asks to hold my hand as we walk to the pool. I am a little embarrassed to admit that my first thought was to say, "WHAT HAND? I am carrying everything...the cooler, the toys, the towels"...Luckily, I caught myself before I began that rant. Here my daughter, the entire reason I am a stay at home mom, the entire reason that I put in these tough hours and days, wants to hold MY hand. To connect with me and love me by simply holding my hand. I am so thankful that in a brief moment of clarity, I quickly rearranged the supplies and made room to grab her sweet little fingers.

Sometimes, we all need an adjustment in attitude and to reevaluate our priorities. We are often to busy to see what is important. We are often to frazzled and "in the trenches" to live in these sweet moments. As a three year old, she wants to hold my hand, but before I know it, she'll be a busy teenager who won't want to be in the same room with me and I will yearn for these "simple" days.

28 weeks

2011-07-19T06:21:00.000-05:00

How far along?: 28 weeks!

How big is baby?: 2 1/4 pounds and almost 15 inches in length!

Weight gain/loss?: +2 for the overall. Will find out at my appointment this Thursday.

Stretch marks?: I should change this to say, besides the few that Brayden left, none.

Maternity clothes?: All maternity pants, still mixing and matching tops, but some of my tops are getting too short.

Sleep?: Pretty well for the most part. Still taking my medicine every night and it is helping SO much. My hips are still bothersome until I get stretched out a bit in the morning. Last night I didn't sleep well at all, and I have been reading blogs/catching up on the news since 5am. It's going to be a long day.

Food cravings?: Pizza. It is all I ever want to eat, but sadly we are out of frozen and can't get delivery here! Still on a cereal kick as well.

Gender?: We are having a girl!

Movement?: Yes! Baby girl moves all the time. I think she is sitting lower than Brayden was- I don't feel like she is up in my ribcage all of the time like her brother was! However I DO feel her on my bladder a LOT which is rather uncomfortable.

Belly button?: Getting flatter and flatter.

What are you looking forward to this week?: Getting my glucose test over with, Brayden's 2nd birthday party is this weekend so I have LOTS to do before then!

Baby can blink her eyes now and she has eyelashes! I am hoping they are gorgeous and long like Brayden's. If she is as cute as Brayden, we are going to be in trouble someday. Her eyesight is developing, so she might even be able to see light that filters in through my womb. That is kind of creepy but also awesome.

As far as Brayden moving beds, we still haven't done it yet. I just know that with busy season upon us, it will be up to me to do it, and I know I can't be consistent without Brandon here. I think it will just be easier when he can comprehend it. We are still talking about taking the side rail off of his crib to help with the transition, but nothing new there as of right now.

The best part about this week? HELLO 3rd TRIMESTER! :) 28 weeks down, 11 to go. Right now, we tentatively have a C-section scheduled for October 4- 39 weeks exactly. Brandon is excited that baby girl's birthday will be 10-4 (you know like trucker talk) and it really makes me laugh when he talks about it. Of course, that could change so we will see- but for right now, I kind of like knowing! I did quite a bit of work in her room last week (lamp, hamper, getting blankets out to wash) and I can't wait to start washing things and putting them away. She will be here before we know it!

Winners!

2011-07-18T15:00:00.000-05:00

I am a couple of days behind on posting the winner of the After Nine to Five designs giveaway! Sorry about that- without further adieu....

The winner of a Subway Art Print from Ashley's Shop is:

#15- Emily S!

And the winner of a custom print for only $5 is:

#3- Maegan!

I will pass your information along to Ashley! :) Congrats! And thanks to all who entered, and to Ashley for hosting this great giveaway!

Guest Blogger: Elle The Heiress

2011-07-18T08:03:00.000-05:00

I have been following Lillian on Twitter and reading her blog for a LONG time now. She is one of the funniest people on my Twitter stream! She is a wife and momma to Sebastian, who is 2 and Miss Genevieve (Gigi) who is 5 months old. They are total cuties by the way! She also has an Etsy shop and sells the prettiest cards and jewelry! She is SO crafty, it makes me jealous, so here she is showing us a project that they just completed in their home!

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When we were house shopping, it took us forever to find one that we agreed on. Husby wanted something modern, bland, dull, ugh. I wanted something charming with lots of history and great vintage details. He insisted on a garage, I insisted on a craft room. He wanted a small yard, I wanted a large one. The list goes on and on of things that we each wanted, mostly conflicting. Because our wishes were so different (and our budget was pretty small) it took us a very long time to find our house. Like…4 months and over 100 viewings. While I was pregnant. In the summer. Looking at houses that had been shut up and had no AC. It. Was. Miserable.

But then, one glorious day our realtor called and said, “Hey, there’s an open house going on that I think you should go to.” So we did, and it was love at first sight for me. I’m not even kidding when I say that we I looked at two rooms in the gorgeous 1937 home, then told husby that I wanted him to call our realtor NOW to put in an offer. I did not want this house getting away from me us. Husby eventually gave in (even though the house met virtually none of his needs or wants) and less than a month after Sebastian was born we were first time homeowners!

The details in our house are really charming - from the intricate baseboards & crown molding to the lovely fireplace mantle (which would look better if husby would let me paint it white…but that’s another story) and the absolutely wonderful storm windows with a pulley system to open & close them. LOVE.

Buuuut…with the good comes the bad. In this case, the bad was our bathroom cabinet. I bring into evidence, Photos 1-4. (Please pardon the low quality – lighting isn’t the greatest in the bathroom.) I apologize if you’re scarred for life from the horror that you are about to witness.

Those stains and spots were left by previous owners, and no matter how hard I tried scrubbing at them with every cleaning product imaginable, they would. not. come. off. Ugh! It finally got the best of me last week and I couldn’t stand looking at the ugly inside of the cabinet any longer. Well, actually, I have to stand on the toilet to see the inside of the cabinet, but just knowing that the gunk is in there is enough to drive me crazy.

So, like any ~~impatient~~ good wife, I woke husby up from his Sunday nap with the kids and asked him to help me paint it. He was a pretty good sport for someone who had been bombarded mid-nap and generally hates doing housework anyway. I added two gold stars to his reward chart.

We He started by touching up some of more unsightly stains with some leftover white paint that we had. I’m not really sure why, but he’s a perfectionist so I just let him do it.

Then he used his magical Frog Tape to tape off the cabinet while I snapped away with my camera, assuring him that I wouldn’t use any bad photos of him (which I don’t, so I get two gold stars for my reward chart, too).

Oh, here’s the really awesome vintage light switch in this bathroom.

After taping off everything, husby got to work on priming the cabinet with gray Krylon stuff. This is when things started to go wrong. You see, the window in our bathroom was painted shut by previous owners so it doesn’t open. Spraypainting + no ventilation = disaster.

While he was priming, I snuck off for some “fresh air” to our bedroom to snap some quick pics of cute little Gigi napping away. Baaaaaby tootsies!

When I ventured back to the bathroom, I could barely see through the gray haze of paint. In this picture husby is fanning the air saying, “What haze?” after I commented on it.

After he finished priming, the entire house started to stink and we ended up having to leave with the kids so that the house could air out and not kill all of their little brain cells (two more gold stars for each of us for being good parents). And then? The laziness set it. We let the cabinet sit like this for days before finishing.

Husby actually finished the project on Thursday evening while I was out with the kids so I didn’t get any in-action photographs of the final coating, but here it is all nice and Pistachio-y.

You like it?

Brayden says "Momma"

2011-07-16T07:00:00.000-05:00

FINALLY!!!! HE FINALLY SAID IT AND KNEW IT WAS ME!!!!

Ok, sorry. I was just so excited after months of hearing "dada" that finally, Brayden said "momma".

Melts my heart!

-July 14, 2011

Guest Blogger: Kristi from Mama of the Fisch

2011-07-15T07:00:00.000-05:00

Today's guest blogger is Kristi from Mama of the Fisch. She is momma to Brady, who is 21 months old, and has a baby girl due the first week of September! She lives in Chicago, and grew up about an hour from where I live- in the town I attended college in! She is a high school teacher as well- bless her soul! After being an aid in a grade school, I know that high school students are just not my calling! Here is her take on commuting with a toddler- something that her and Kim have in common!

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The Commute

With a month left of the school year, our beloved nanny up and quit. My first reaction was, “Oh _____. What now?” We had options. Try to hire another nanny, ask our out of town parents to step up for a month and babysit or switch to daycare. We labored over our decision. We decided the best choice for our family was the daycare at my high school.

I live in the city of Chicago and teach 12 miles north in an affluent suburb.

My commute used to be “me time”.

In the mornings, I would leave the house around 6:45. I would choose what to listen to. Some days it was the news on NPR, other days I would rock out to Taylor Swift and most days I drove in silence. I would stop daily at my Starbucks, and call my mama each morning to discuss the day ahead. My car equaled my time.

In the afternoons, I would call my mama for a recap or a friend for some laughs and drive home anticipating seeing my toddler and hearing about his day. I would spend that time in the car, shifting gears from teacher mode to mama mode. My car equaled my time.

It was lovely, really lovely.

Then, on May 16^th it came to tragic, sudden end. My toddler started commuting with me TO AND FROM school. Most of you would say, “Kristi, it was only 12 miles”. And my response, “Live in the city of Chicago for one week, no one day, drive on our expressways and then tell me about the 12 short miles.”

You think you know, but you have no idea.

The Sunday night before, I laid out a timeline and a plan for Operation Commute with Toddler.

I didn’t sleep.

The first day the commute didn’t go well. Not the ride there and the ride home was worse.

But, we survived the month and both lived to tell about it.

What I learned in that one short month:

· My car would now double as a moving convenience store. Teddy Grahams, 100 Calorie Packs Fudge Cookies, Annie Organic Snack Bunnies, Reduced Fat Cheez-Its and Jelly Bellys, when absolutely necessary are on the menu and will be served at 3:45pm sharp.

· A sippy cup is necessary. It better be cold and full of something other than water or it will either be thrown on the floor or directly at your head.

· I am a pro at the over the shoulder food toss. Who knew toddlers become starving the minute you put them in the car? Waffles, pop tarts, and breakfast bars have all been chucked from the driver’s seat back to the toddler’s car seat in the morning and when they say “more” they mean it.

· Never hand your toddler your Starbucks card/MasterCard. They will master rolling the back window down in the drive thru and then throw it out the window, all while you are in line begging for a sip of your beloved caffeinated drink that you once drank in total silence.

· Get a DVD player. The angels of silence came upon my car the day it was installed. I beg to hear Mickey’s voice when I get in the car and pray the episode doesn’t end before we get home. You can judge me all you want but that DVD player means more than me than anyone will ever know.

The best part, we will add an infant to the mix in a few short months. Maybe we need find a realtor and start thinking about moving? Right now, I am celebrating summer and the fact that I rarely have to commute with my toddler.

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Not a good day

2011-07-13T20:15:00.000-05:00

Today was not a good day. It was an awful day. Crabby kiddo, one hour nap, incessant whining, dragging me all over, then the finale of throwing himself onto the floor found him in bed at 7pm and me wishing it was 9pm so I could take my meds and go to bed myself.

My hormones are raging and the tears will not stop flowing.

How will I do this with two kids? HOW?

When will Brayden get that he can't just drag me along everywhere? Or sit directly on my belly? Or not to rough house with me so much?

I am so overwhelmed with emotions, about what this transition will do to my little boy. And I only have 12 weeks left with him as an only. Of course, I am so excited about his baby sister, but I am almost mourning the loss of my only. The one I live and breathe for. How will I open myself to MORE love?

When will I know when he is ready for his new room? When will he talk more? Understand more? Listen more? Communicate in a way that is without stomping his feet? Should I be concerned? Is it just because he is a boy? Am I not doing enough?

The end of this day has left me feeling very inadequate. I hope tomorrow is better.

Guest Blogger: Kimberly Michelle

2011-07-13T07:00:00.003-05:00

I have been reading Kim's blog for as long as I can remember! I absolutely love this post where she announced her pregnancy, and how they told their families! She is wife to Mr. M and mama to Baby L (who is getting SO big and adorable!) and bleeds gold and blue for UCLA.

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When you’re a working mom, the car becomes a special place between a parent and a child. It’s not just a vehicle to transport you from one place to another, but instead it’s the spot where you say hello and goodbye to your child ten times a week. And because of that, it becomes an extra special place.

It’s a dance party. It’s a sing-a-long. It’s a place to share your secrets. It’s a spot to giggle. It’s where you give eskimo kisses and big giant smooches. It’s a firing range for shoes and any other objects within reach. It’s a crazy crazy place to be.

The second she’s buckled into the car seat she gets a big kiss, going in or going out. It’s an easy place to squeeze some love in… and I make sure I do it every time.

Then there’s the music. Whether it’s bright and early in the morning or late in the afternoon, if Miss L is in the car the radio is tuned to SIRIUS/XM’s Kids Place Live. Even if it’s just for 10 minutes, we sing and boogie along to the music on the radio. And if there’s talking on the radio, then we stop and have a little conversation of our own as we drive along. And if it’s a really annoying song, we switch to On Broadway! where her mom can really go nutso and belt out a tune.

I always asked her questions as we drove along on our short little rides to and from home, but now I get answers.

“Where is our house from here?”

“There!”

“What is over in those fields?”

“Sharaamem” (her word for strawberries)

And the best gift I can give her to show my love is a simple gesture. I open up the sunroof and let the sunshine and wind into the car.

“OUTSIDE!! OUTSIDE!!” she points and squeals with delight. “Outside” is by far her favorite place to be, so bringing it into the car is some sort of magical experience for her, even if it’s just for a few minutes.

And if it’s too hot for “outside” then we just blast the REAR a/c and go crazy!

Now, sure, lots of parents get to experience these things daily without even a second thought, but usually the car is just a way to get to another place. And for many parents, it’s not a fun way to do it. I’m not quite sure that I ever consciously decided to make it more than what it looks to be… but I can tell you that I look forward to our “mini commute to school” each and every day.

I can’t wait until I can trade the car for a walk or bike ride with her to school… then we can both enjoy OUTSIDE and even sing some tunes that maybe others can hear.

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I love this post! So sweet! You can find Kim's blog here or follow her on Twitter- @kim_michelle. Thanks so much, Kim!

27 weeks!

2011-07-12T07:00:00.001-05:00

How far along?: 27 weeks!

How big is baby?: 2 pounds and 14-15 inches in length.

Weight gain/loss?: +2 for the overall!

Stretch marks?: I should change this to say, besides the few that Brayden left, none.

Maternity clothes?: All maternity pants, still mixing and matching tops.

Sleep?: Pretty well actually! The medicine for the restless leg syndrome is helping immensely! My hips are sore when I wake up in the morning. I attribute that to sleeping on my side. When I get up in the middle of the night, I feel like I am walking around like I am 90! It takes a few minutes to be able to walk correctly, but overall, can't complain.

Food cravings?: Plain bagels with butter have been a hit with me this week, along with Cinnamon Toast Crunch.

Gender?: We are having a girl!

Movement?: Yes! Baby girl moves all the time.

Belly button?: Still flat on top. Still weird. Blah.

What are you looking forward to this week?: Taking Brayden swimming today and dinner with a college friend, getting some more nursery things crossed off of my list, preparing for Brayden's birthday party that is less than 2 weeks away!

My belly has taken yet another jump in the growth department. It is just insane how much things change from day to day! Overall I am feeling really good, I have a lot of energy (just not towards the end of the day) and my medicine is keeping my restless legs at bay. My legs cramp up a LOT when I stretch in the morning. I forgot how much that can hurt!

I am making LOTS of lists, crossing a few things off here and there. I already have my "What to pack in the diaper bag for the hospital list" started, talked to my friend Laura about the possibility of her taking photos there when Brayden comes to meet his sister, and have our last family photo session as a family of 3 scheduled. I have been purging through things for an upcoming garage sale, and trying to get my head on straight when it comes to finishing planning Brayden's 2nd birthday party. SO much going on! :)

I ordered a couple of headbands for baby girl, then eventually wandered off to Baby Gap and saw the cutest trench coat and pea coat! Too bad they are totally impractical but it is fun to look at! I have visions of sweater dresses and leggings, onesies and baby legs, and lots of hair bows. I am getting anxious, but definitely not quite ready!

As far as baby girl's development goes, she is sleeping and waking at regular intervals, opening and closing her eyes, and sucking on her fingers. Her brain tissue is still developing, but her brain activity is very high! She also might be starting to get the hiccups, but I haven't noticed them yet. Soon enough, I am sure!

Next week marks the start of the third trimester!

My little farmer

2011-07-11T15:25:00.000-05:00

I took these photos of Brayden over the weekend. I ordered the second one on a canvas for the living room- it was just SO cute I couldn't resist! These are now some of my most treasured photos of Brayden. I definitely couldn't have done them without Brandon's help- we make a good team! And apparently, really cute kids, too!

It's giveaway time!

2011-07-10T18:00:00.000-05:00

I'm not even sure how I ran into Ashley's blog or shop, but that really doesn't matter! She sells some of the cutest stuff! The newest item in her shop are her Subway Art Digital Prints.

Star Wars

Office Space

Aren't they awesome? She will be adding more to her shop soon, and she even does custom ones as well!

So what's up for grabs?

One winner will receive a Subway Art print of their choice (emailed to you as a high resolution file) and one winner will receive any custom print for just $5!

Awesome, right? Here's how to enter:

Mandatory entry: Visit Ashley's shop and tell me something else from there that you like! Also- include your email address.

Bonus entries: 1. Be a follower of this blog, or tell me that you already are!

2. Follow me on Twitter-- @basicallyjulie

3. Follow Ashley's blog

4. Follow Ashley on Twitter-- @afterninetofive

That's 5 entries total! Good luck! :) This giveaway will run until Friday, July 15th and the winner will be announced on Saturday, July 16th.

iPhone photos

2011-07-08T07:00:00.000-05:00

Here are a couple pictures from my phone that I just had to share!

Nothing would do, but over the weekend, we had to go get a fire pit. Brandon was insistent on Brayden learning how to cook a hot dog and marshmallows over it, just like he did when he was little. It was awfully cute to watch! Brayden would get within 10 feet of the fire pit and start blowing like he does on his food. Yes, bub, it's hot!

This sort of looks like a first day of school picture! This was before our Kindermusik class two weeks ago. Of course, since Brayden woke up only about 20 minutes before we had to leave, he was still clutching that blankie and paci. Also, he looks like he is 4 and I don't love that.

26 weeks

2011-07-07T06:00:00.000-05:00

How far along?: 256w2d

How big is baby?: almost 2 pounds and is 14 inches long. They estimated baby girl to be at 2 pounds at my ultrasound last week!
Weight gain/loss?: +2 for the overall!
Stretch marks?: I should change this to say, besides the few that Brayden left, none.

Maternity clothes?: All maternity pants, still mixing and matching tops.

Sleep?: except for last night, really great. I started taking the medicine for my legs late last week and I can really tell a difference. It doesn't make me groggy either, so I am VERY happy about that. I am just getting more awkward, harder to get comfy, etc.

Food cravings?: this warm weather has me craving ice cream lately!

Gender?: We are having a girl!

Movement?: Yes! ALL. THE. TIME.

Belly button?: Still flat on top. Still weird.

What are you looking forward to this week?: I had a 90 minute prenatal massage on Tuesday and it was glorious!

Baby girl can now hear us talking, so now we have 2 sets of little ears to look out for! Ha! :) She is inhaling and exhaling small amounts of amniotic fluid to help her lungs develop. She's putting on some baby fat, too! And with this mommy craving ice cream all the time, I am sure that my indulgences are helping.

Less than 3 months and she will be here. It's so crazy to think that so quickly, we will be a family of 4. I have been soaking Brayden up the last few weeks, and the other night I got teary eyed when I thought about him not being it anymore. I know he will transition just fine- I am more worried about myself! I can't imagine loving someone as much as I love Brayden! He's my baby, always will be. I am so excited to see him as a big brother though, and I know that my love for my children will always be unexplainable but never will it be not enough.

Guest Blogger- Suzanne at Bebeh Blog

2011-07-06T06:40:00.000-05:00

Well, summer is officially here as of a couple of weeks ago, and that means that my family's business will be getting busy anytime now. That means, that my time to write/blog will become limited for awhile, but to fill in the gaps, I asked some of my favorite bloggers to write up some great posts for you all to read! Everybody wins! I hope you enjoy these ladies and their posts!

Summer Feature: Suzanne from Bebeh Blog

First up is Suzanne from Bebeh Blog. She is the momma to Evan who is 2, and Caroline who is 6.5 months old. Basically, she is one of my heroes as we venture closer to baby girl's due date. Her posts always leave my laughing, but mostly I know that as a mother, I am not alone in certain situations! Enjoy!

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My baby is six and a half months old and has never slept in her crib. Here’s the part where you THINK I am going to rave about the benefits of co-sleeping and family beds and how it’s so natural and cozy and easy and blahdy blah blah. Nope.

Caroline sleeps in her swing. She swings all night long on the other side of our bedroom, peaceful and quiet. Sometimes she squawks once or twice to be fed and I shuffle over to my nice comfy chair for a quick nursing session, but then back she goes into her swing and back I go into my gloriously child-free king sized bed. The beauty of the swing is that even if she thinks 2 am is play time I can hand her a teething toy and say PEACE OUT MUNCHKIN and the rocking will eventually but her back to sleep.

When I had my first baby, Evan, in 2009 I was WOEFULLY unprepared for the exhaustion – although, really, how could you be prepared for only getting 90 minute blocks of rest with 4 hours of walking, rocking, shushing, swaddling and nursing in between for months and months at a time? There’s no job in the world that demanding, because no one would do it for less than a bazillion dollars and a magical unicorn. It took 4 months of sleeping on the couch in shifts before we even made it upstairs, where Evan took one look at the co-sleeper and started screaming like I had just threatened to feed him to rabid badgers. But I KNEW I was SUPPOSED to sleep near my baby (but not WITH my baby) and was determined to follow that advice no matter what (thanks for nothing, pediatrician). Every time I fell asleep with him tucked under my arm I woke up feeling guilty as well as stiff-necked and sore. I was so unsure of my own instincts and decisions I made things harder on all of us. But, hey, that’s what being a first time mom is all about, amirite?

By the time Caroline was born, the only thing I knew was the “right” decision was whatever got me enough sleep to chase a toddler all day. I was willing to co-sleep, bed-share, buy a fancy baby hammock, or blow two grand on an all organic cotton crib mattress made by blind nuns in Tunisia if only the baby would SLEEP. It took exactly two nights home for us to realize she loved the swing. My husband – thrilled to avoid Cranky Tired Wife this time around – moved it up to our bedroom and it’s been there ever since. When we wore out the motor of the first swing, we briefly considered trying to make the transition to the co-sleeper (aka my $150 laundry basket) or the crib (aka my $100 toy storage bin).

Instead, we bought another swing. Why mess with a good thing?

In the end, all that matters is that everyone sleeps, so we can be the cute, happy, fun family I pretend we are on my blog.

If she’s still sleeping in the swing a year from now, THEN we can talk.

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Hilarious, right?

You can find Suzanne's blog here, and on Twitter you can follow her- @bebehblog

I promise you won't be disappointed!

Belly Kisses

2011-07-05T08:00:00.000-05:00

Lately, Brayden has taken a pretty keen interest in my ever expanding belly. If you ask him where his sissy is, he reaches for my stomach, pulls up my shirt, and gives baby girl a kiss. It is THE absolute sweetest thing ever.

Until he does it in public.

And until mommy has a dress on! :)

25 week appointment

2011-07-02T07:00:00.001-05:00

I was really nervous going into my 25 week appointment, mostly because I had to have yet another sonogram to check out the placement of my placenta. If it was still low lying, it could potentially turn into placenta previa, putting me on pelvic rest for the remainder of my pregnancy. Not the worst thing by any means, but I was really hoping to avoid this!

I walked into the ultrasound room, nervous, but excited to see baby girl yet again. She is getting so big! They estimated her at around 2 pounds, with a big ol' noggin like her brother and long limbs. I am not sure where those come into play, but hey! We'll take them! She was moving all over the place, opening and closing her mouth a lot, and it was just so incredible to watch.

Profile. I think she has my nose.

Looking face on with her mouth open.

And then I heard the words I was longing to hear- Your placenta moved up on it's own, so there is no cause for worry there. Wuhoo! Then I had to wait to see the doctor. I finally gained 2 pounds, so there's that. I bought Fannie Mae Mint Meltaway ice cream last weekend at the store, so I am sure that is the culprit. My sweet tooth has been terrible lately.

The doctor got a strong heartbeat at 150 bpm, a kick on the wand too! We discussed C-section dates and have one tentatively scheduled- but it's a secret. I can't believe I only have 14 weeks left! It is going by SO fast. I go back in 3 weeks for an appointment and my glucose testing, then every 2 weeks after that! Baby girl will be here before we know it! We talked about the restless leg thing, and I went ahead and started taking the medicine she prescribed me. I am on the smallest dose at .25 mg, and I am happy to say that it helped without me feeling groggy or worthless the next morning.

I am feeling ready as far as clothing, blankets, etc. I wish Brayden would have done a little better the first time I put him in his big boy bed, but I know he will change a LOT over the course of the next couple of months. We have to dig some things out of the attic (infant carrier, bassinet for the pack n play, etc) but nothing I am in a hurry to do right now. Next big thing on the list? Brayden's 2nd birthday party in 3 weeks!

Last weekend

2011-07-01T14:20:00.000-05:00

I have been so crazy busy this week, I almost forgot to post these photos from last weekend! We did a lot of things around the house and got to hang out a lot, just the three of us. Those are the kind of weekends I live for!

Brayden loves to be out in the yard, especially with his dad.

I know the chair frame is totally in the way, but I love Brayden's face in this photo! He had his very own rake and was helping clean the patio.

Contemplating his next move.

Come here, momma!

He also really loves the broom, and my reflexes get sharper every time he has it out. Hello, eyeballs.

Juice break!

Our Sunday project last weekend. We got the plants all picked out AND planted that day!

Here is the view from the patio. Once I get some more photos of the final product, I will share. I am just so excited to have some landscaping!

Not here today...

2011-06-29T07:00:00.001-05:00

I am not here today, because I am an Official Sluiter Nation Recruit! Meaning, I wrote a post for my friend Katie's blog! Find me here today!

25 weeks

2011-06-28T22:00:00.000-05:00

How far along?: 25w1d

How big is baby?: 13 1/2 inches long, weighs about a pound and a half.
Weight gain/loss?: -1. Will find out for sure on Thursday.
Stretch marks?: I should change this to say, besides the few that Brayden left, none.

Maternity clothes?: All maternity pants, still mixing and matching tops.

Sleep?: I could use some more. The restless leg thing isn't getting much better. I cut out all caffeine, I am drinking TONS of water, and yesterday I went for a prenatal massage on just my legs. There is no guarantee that it will cure it, but it could help. I also booked a full 90 minute prenatal massage for next week- I am excited about it! If this doesn't cure it, there is a medication I could go on. I filled it just in case, but I haven't started taking it.

Food cravings?: cereal- specifically Lucky Charms or Captain Crunch. Neither of which I have in this house right now.

Gender?: We are having a girl!

Movement?: Yes! Brandon got to see it for himself when my whole stomach was moving the other day. She is busy in there!

Belly button?: Still flat on top. Still weird.

What are you looking forward to this week?: Doctor appointment and ultrasound on Thursday!

I feel 6 months pregnant, for sure. I feel like my belly has once again popped out of nowhere, and seeing her move really makes me know that the rest of this pregnancy will fly by. I am getting anxious to see what our baby girl will look like, how she will resemble Brayden, what their differences will be. I know I have a lot on my list before she gets here, too! I am really hoping that Brayden will be transitioned into his new bed, but I don't want to rush him either. He is going to change a lot in the next 3 months- I just have to keep reminding myself of that.

If you ask Brayden to give his sissy a kiss, he will lift up my shirt and kiss my belly. It is the cutest thing ever. He is going to be such a great big brother.

We still haven't settled on a name- not that it matters, because it will be a secret until she is here! But I am kind of sad about it. When we found out Brayden was a boy, he had a name. I think that now that I have clothes in the closet and that we have known for 11 weeks now that I just want it pinned down. I know in the grand scheme of things it isn't a big deal. But I am hoping we can agree on something soon! It is definitely harder the second time around, even though the gender is different!

23 months

2011-06-27T06:00:00.000-05:00

I know, I haven't done one of these in a long while, but I just can't do the 2 year old post without writing about this past month.

Brayden,

You LOVE to be outside. You love the slide, the pool, watering momma's flowers, and chasing us with the hose. You love your Lightning McQueen cozy coupe, going for nightly walks in the wagon with us, and going with daddy in his truck.

Your vocabulary is starting to expand. You now say "what's this?" (uuhhs-dis?) and "want that" (wah dat!) and you answer "yeah yeah!" to just about everything. You can't quite say "no", but you shake your head no or push things away if you don't want them. I am not in a hurry to hear NO from you just yet!

Your molars have been the nastiest little boogers in the past few weeks. The top left one is finally through, the top right is almost there, and just the other day, Grandma Sarah noticed your bottom left is very swollen. It's turned you into even a better sleeper than you were before (hello 4 hour naps and 12 hour nights!) and you stay in a generally good mood during the day. You are quick to show us when they hurt, though, and I hate that for you! I know it will be over soon!

I tried to put you down for a nap in your big boy bed the other day, and that was a giant fail. You got excited, tucked your animals in with you, and I thought it was going to be a piece of cake. But when I started to leave the room, you looked very scared and confused. We aren't going to rush you!

You have eaten a TON this month and are absolutely growing. Your favorites include blueberries, kiwi, bananas, strawberry's, Oreos (ha!), mac and cheese, pizza, green beans, yogurt, and dry cereal. Oh, and french fries. But I think all toddlers like french fries! I am trying to get you to incorporate other foods as well (hello, more veggies!) but so far, you are just content with your circle of familiar foods.

This past week you have been an amazing sleeper. Like, 4.5 hour naps and 12+hour nights. I am not complaining, but I am wondering when I will go in your room and you will look two feet taller! I am certain between your molars and a possible growth spurt that this is the explanation for your long sleeping stretches. It's a good thing, because I have gotten a lot done in the past week and still have had time to rest!

I love you, moose.

Love,

Momma

Brayden's Room

2011-06-24T13:37:00.000-05:00

Brayden's big boy room is still missing a few finishing touches (window trim, wall decor) but I figured I would show it off while it was picked up!

Brayden's bed. This is the headboard that Brandon had on his bed growing up. The sheet set is from Pottery Barn Kids, the down comforter was a Doorbuster buy at Bergner's, and one of his blankies is hanging on the bed. Can't lose those.

The messy toy area. I am waiting to redo the baskets on the changing table when the baby comes, then organize some of his toys with the older baskets.

Brayden LOVES his tractor lamp. This was also Brandon's, and was the lamp in the nursery that I used in the middle of the night those first few weeks. The one bookend was a random find at HomeGoods in the clearance department. My mom couldn't part with it, even though it was supposed to be in a set. He loves it. The little box on the left was the cake topper from my baby shower. It has his ultrasound pictures in it and a verse.

The closet has a door! YAY! Still waiting on the trim. And for a magic fairy to come put that other random stuff away. She's worthless. :)

Nothing terribly exciting. I am sure the toys will ALL be rotated next month when his birthday rolls around. I can't wait to get some decorations on the wall as well.

Sorry about that...

2011-06-22T15:51:00.002-05:00

As you have probably noticed, I was trying out some different comment forms on the blog because I have been getting a LOT of spam. But, it just wasn't worth messing things up- so the commenting is back to Blogger default- and I will just do a MUCH better job moderating my comments! Sorry for the distractions!

Busted

2011-06-22T07:00:00.000-05:00

I have to share this cute little story of me totally busting my husband and kiddo.

The other night, we went out for pizza with my parents, then the 3 of us piled into Brandon's truck to go pick up my car at the dealer since it was getting worked on. I told him I had to run to get milk but then I would meet them at home, joking that maybe I wouldn't come home since he had Brayden all to himself! After my quick jaunt to the store, I found $2 in my pocket and decided to drive thru Dairy Queen for a small cone. I knew that I could stash the wrapper in my pocket so that Brayden would never see it! Perfect idea, right?

Wouldn't you know, that after I ordered and pulled ahead, I saw my husband and son pulling out of the drive thru 2 cars ahead of me! I started laughing out loud and wondering if I too, would be caught on their way out of the drive thru. They didn't see me but I did catch up to them on the highway!

We pulled into the garage at the exact same time, and as I got out, I saw a big grin on Brayden's face! Here was the conversation that ensued....

Me: Brayden! How was your ice cream?
Hubs: We didn't get ice cream.
Me: Yes you did!
Hubs: (laughing) Wait, how did you know?
Me: Umm, I was 2 cars behind you in the drive thru.
Hubs: I KNEW it!

We got a good laugh out of it, that is for sure- but they were totally busted!

24 weeks!

2011-06-21T07:00:00.001-05:00

I really need to invest in a full size mirror- because even this bathroom mirror at my parent's house isn't quite working for these photos! :)

T-shirt: Gap (on clearance! not maternity!)

Capris that you can't see- Liz Lange Maternity from Target

Scratch on my forearm courtesy of a cat who didn't want to be pushed off the bed in the middle of the night.

How far along?: 24 weeks!

How big is baby?: The length of an ear of corn (about 12 inches).
Weight gain/loss?: -1. Will find out for sure next week at my appointment. Ignorance is bliss, right?
Stretch marks?: I should change this to say, besides the few that Brayden left, none.

Maternity clothes?: Most pants are maternity, still mixing and matching tops. I bought some t-shirts at the Gap over the weekend that aren't maternity that I should be able to wear for a while!

Sleep?: Over the weekend, my least favorite pregnancy symptom returned- restless legs! Ugh, if you have never had it, consider yourself lucky. It isn't painful, just very annoying and it makes it almost impossible for me to sleep. I have read some remedies online and am currently waiting for my OB to call back to see if any of these are actually going to help. For now, I am cutting out ALL caffeine (sad face, even though I was still limiting my intake) and making sure to stretch really well before going to bed.

Food cravings?: I still want a huge breakfast every morning. Biscuits, gravy, bacon, eggs- the works.

Gender?: We are having a girl!

Movement?: Yes! And I am noticing it a lot more often during the day. She's a mover!

Belly button?: Still flat on top. Still weird. My husband has noticed and checks it out- he is just astonished by it apparently!

What are you looking forward to this week?: Brayden's molars progressing (please, I need my sweet little guy back), nice weather, and moving forward with plans to transition Brayden to his big boy bed.

From BabyCenter: Your baby's growing steadily, having gained about 4 ounces since last week. That puts him at just over a pound. Since he's almost a foot long (picture an ear of corn), he cuts a pretty lean figure at this point, but his body is filling out proportionally and he'll soon start to plump up. His brain is also growing quickly now, and his taste buds are continuing to develop. His lungs are developing "branches" of the respiratory "tree" as well as cells that produce surfactant, a substance that will help his air sacs inflate once he hits the outside world. His skin is still thin and translucent, but that will start to change soon.

Brandon felt baby girl kick a LOT over the weekend, and it is so fun to relive this part. After Brayden was born, I secretly missed this part of pregnancy. Baby girl seems to be closer to my bladder or something, because I never felt like I was actually going to pee my pants the first time. It's very interesting to say the least!

We get to see baby girl late next week for another ultrasound to check my placenta. I am praying that it moves up on it's own and that it won't develop into placenta previa. Fingers crossed! I am excited to see baby girl again, that is for sure. After this appointment, I go back 3 weeks later for my 28 week appointment, then already it's every 2 weeks. Time is absolutely flying!

Nursery #2- Progress

2011-06-18T06:00:00.000-05:00

Brayden is still sleeping in the crib, but we are thinking about switching him over in 1-2 weeks. Hubs should have the window trim up in his new room, allowing us to hang up his curtains. I also went ahead and ordered the top sheet for his bed. I was going to just not worry about a top sheet for him, but I slept in his bed last week, and the comforter feels weird on bare skin!
I ordered new curtains for the nursery so that when the other ones go in Brayden's room, there are still curtains in there. Plus, I am more likely to get Brandon to hang them when he does everything else! :)
The crib bumper came, but the sheet is on backorder until August 15. No big deal.
Brandon brought the table home that I bought from my aunt- it's coming together!

Here is a sneak peek of the bumper and the table.

I need to put the pull on the drawer, but other than that, it is ready to go! I love how it brings out the small amount of green in the bumper, and I can't wait to see the rest of this space come together!

Landscaping

2011-06-17T07:00:00.002-05:00

I have no experience with gardening, potting plants/flowers, or any landscaping in general. I get this naturally from my mother, who also never did any when I was growing up. We had a garden that we maintained with a neighbor, but that was the extent of it. So imagine the dismay of my husband when he realizes that I have no desire to ever plant flowers around our home.

The thing is, his mom and aunts are really good at it. And LIKE doing it. Which I think is totally weird. I can not imagine spending a perfect Saturday picking out plants and putting them around my house. Not my thing. But they LOVE it. And they love it enough to do it for me, as long as I water/maintain. I say it's a good deal! So last weekend, Brandon's aunts came to give our house a little spring color.

Well hello pretty pot by the front door!

And pretty pots by the garage.

There will be flowers planted around that tree.

Two new bushes to replace others that aren't really going anywhere. We will move them to the back of the house.

Patio.

The grassy area next to the house from the gutters to the patio will hopefully be taken out, and landscaped. Like with bushes, stepping stones, hostas, etc. I don't know the details, I am just excited about it.

It will definitely add something to our back yard!

Brandon also trimmed up the trees over the weekend.

Do you like to landscape/plant flowers? Any big goals before summer?

Not here today...

2011-06-16T05:00:00.000-05:00

BUT you can catch me over at Callie's blog- she is featuring me as part of her Mom's and Babies feature!

Enjoy! :)

things I am loving...

2011-06-15T06:00:00.000-05:00

Here are a few things I am loving right now...

The Vintage baby feet necklace from The Vintage Pearl. (sorry, couldn't get the pic!)

This maternity swimsuit from A Pea in the Pod. Too bad it's $89 :(

Custom iPhone cases by PlumStreetPrints

This dress from Anthropologie.

This handbag from Nine West.

My new girly Vera Bradley diaper bag! :) I scored this at the outlet mall for $44- originally $97!

What are some things you are loving currently?

23 weeks

2011-06-14T08:34:00.000-05:00

I had a picture, but hubs took it in a hurry, and it was super blurry. :( Hopefully I will get some this weekend!

How far along?: 23w

How big is baby?: The size of a large mango.
Weight gain/loss?: -1.

Stretch marks?: I should change this to say, besides the few that Brayden left, none.

Maternity clothes?: Most pants are maternity, still mixing and matching tops. Most days I am just in yoga pants and a tshirt :)

Sleep?: Can't get enough.

Food cravings?: breakfast food, but my stomach is always so weird in the mornings, that I can't eat anything until at least 10am. It is getting really annoying.

Gender?: baby girl!

Movement?: Yes! And I am noticing it a lot more often during the day. She's a mover!

Belly button?: Still flat on top. Still weird.

What are you looking forward to this week?: Brayden and I spent all day yesterday outside, but the forecast isn't looking promising for the next 2 days. Hopefully getting some house work done and deciding if we will be doing any more landscaping.

Baby's sense of movement is now developed, so when I am dancing alone in my bathroom, she can totally feel it. (ha, just a joke!) I got to see her move along my stomach the other day- so crazy! It is definitely one of my favorite pregnancy things. Brandon even felt her the other night before we went to bed. He loves it!

Blood vessels in her lungs are developing to prepare for breathing. Sounds outside of the womb like a dog barking or a vacuum cleaner probably won't faze her when she is living on the outside as well. Good thing, because Brayden threw a fit the other day that was just so loud!

Baby girl's closet is filling up quite nicely, thanks to a trip to the Carter's outlet, BabiesRUS, and a couple of garage sales. Oh, and my sister bought quite a few things as well! I certainly don't expect to have a baby shower since this is our second baby, and I feel better having a few things in all sizes up to 9 months! I am done buying as I know we will still get gifts from family and friends, but I just can't pass up a good garage sale! I rarely, rarely pay full price for anything as far as kid's clothes are concerned. They grow out of them so fast! I am also excited that the bedding is partially here! YAY!

Being Intentional

2011-06-13T07:00:00.000-05:00

Great weather + energetic toddler = endless amounts of outdoor time.

This also means less time inside, resulting in me feeling slightly panicked when the house isn't as clean/picked up like it was all winter when we were stuck indoors all of the time.

I have made it my goal in the last two weeks to just go with the flow of the day, and keep up with the house chores as needed. So what if the clean dishes sit in the dishwasher overnight because we decided to go get ice cream? They will be there tomorrow. It hasn't been easy, but I know we must take advantage of the nice weather while we have the chance!

Brayden could spend every waking moment outside. And I love that he loves to be outside. But when there is just one of me during the week, it makes it very difficult to do all of the cleaning. And when we are all home on the weekends, the last thing I want to do is clean house! I feel like I am starting to find a balance finally.

Does this happen at your house when the seasons change?

iPhone photo recap

2011-06-12T21:16:00.000-05:00

I have been really, really awful about getting my actual camera out lately, so to tide you over for a bit, here is what we have been up to- iPhone style.

After our successful pool outing earlier this week, I bought a different wading pool and Brayden actually played in it the other night!

I got this adorable outfit for baby girl at a garage sale over the weekend. It will be perfect for next summer!

My washing machine worked some serious overtime last week thanks to my hubs. I almost didn't recognize him when he came home from the field! This was definitely the worst so far.

Brayden loves to go farming, but on this particular morning, he was out like a light!

Love his eyelashes. He will be such a heartbreaker one day.

A trip to the Zoo

2011-06-10T07:00:00.001-05:00

There is a small zoo not too far from here, so Laura and I decided to take Brayden and Caden on Tuesday, before our (successful) attempt at the pool!

Momma, I love the zoo!

Caden looking at the wallabies.

Best buds.

Brayden wanted to kiss all the animals.

Brayden really loved the zoo, despite the heat. We watched the trainer feed the sea lion and show off her tricks. Brayden signed "more" when it was over and was crying when we started to move on. I need to get this kid to Shedd Aquarium this summer!

He didn't love the carousel. But he didn't totally hate it either. I think if I would have put him on one of the animals that didn't move up and down, he would have been ok. Two laps in and he was wanting to be held.

These boys are so fun- we have a blast taking them out and about!

Photographic Evidence

2011-06-09T07:00:00.000-05:00

As some of you know, my child loves bath time but until Tuesday, hated swimming pools. He hated them last year, the times I tried taking him to the indoor pool this winter, and when we spent an entire weekend at the water park. Yes, how much fun can you have at a water park with a kid who is afraid? Not a lot, I will tell you that.

This all changed on Tuesday, thanks to my friend Laura. Her in-laws have a fabulous pool, so we did a play date at the zoo (another post) and then went there to swim. She was smart and grabbed the wading pool at her house beforehand, and Brayden actually liked it.

I have photographic evidence of my son enjoying the swimming pool! I also feel like I should have bought a lottery ticket.

How handsome is he in his tank and trunks? I love it.

YAY! In the pool and NOT crying. Success.

He had a pretty horrible farmer's tan so I slathered him in SPF 70. These photos make him look red but I promise, he isn't sunburnt. I am on the other hand? Look slightly lobsterish.

Look! He is in a pool! BY HIMSELF- NOT CRYING. Seriously, where is that lottery ticket?

Better yet: he went down for a nap in a strange-to-him place for almost 2 hours (as did Caden!) allowing Laura and I some kid-free time in the pool. Gloriousness. I am hoping this is the start to Brayden really liking the pool!

22 weeks

2011-06-08T07:00:00.001-05:00

How far along?: 22w1d

How big is baby?: 11 inches and weighs a pound! Weight gain/loss?: -1. I know.

Stretch marks?: I should change this to say, besides the few that Brayden left, none.

Maternity clothes?: Most of my pants I am wearing are maternity, but I am still mixing and matching tops. I bought a couple of tanks and borrowed some shorts and tanks from a friend. I am set for summer!

Sleep?: Can't get enough.

Food cravings?: pizza.

Gender?: baby girl!

Movement?: Yes- I love it!

Belly button?: Still flat on top. Still weird.

What are you looking forward to this week?: Play date with Laura and Caden, Brandon getting done in the field, manicure!

Baby's lips, eyelids, and eyebrows are becoming more distinct, and baby is even starting to develop tooth buds in her gums! Her eyes are formed, but her iris's have no pigment. If you could see her now, you could see the lanugo (fine hair) that is covering her.

I have been sick 3 times this week, and the all were at different times. It is SO random. And it is always with food I WANT to be eating! So, needless to say, I am still taking the Zofran at times. Boo.

Overall though, I am feeling really good! Some ligament pain from stretching, but I am not falling in a heap at the end of these hot, summer days. Not yet, anyway! I am sure that will come...

It's all there...except...

2011-06-06T07:00:00.000-05:00

All of Brayden's stuff is moved into his big boy room.

That is, except him.

The closet in the nursery is slowly filling up with pink, and my little guy is still sleeping in his crib. And I think it's coming down to excuses.

"I don't think he is ready yet."

"The window trim isn't up, and it needs to be up so that there are curtains."

"I need to pick up the toys in there so he isn't distracted."

See? What this really translates to is I am not ready and that I am scared to death of this transition. I mean, it took forever for us to get Brayden to go to bed awake! WHY ruin a good thing? He still fits in his crib just fine, and really hasn't taken a huge interest in the other room, other than getting toys out. I KNOW in my head he will do fine, but I am just so worried about this transition. I know that the sooner the better, because soon, Brandon will be working some really late nights, and I just don't know if I can do this alone.

I guess I better get to asking about that window trim. My poor hubby.... :)